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I Am Still Learning's avatar

I've tried 3x to write a coherent comment here and the best I can come up with (and this is the short version) is: Once I see/hear it, I can't unsee/unhear it. I recognize that people can be brilliant, creative geniuses and still be bigots and misogynists and homophobes. Being of a certain time and place may be a reason for their beliefs, but it's not an excuse. There were always people in the very same time and place who did not embrace bigotry. They just weren't necessarily famous authors who had a podium from which to broadcast their beliefs.

Given the nature of my trauma, I tend to over-empathize as part of my trauma response. With my existing challenges in regulating my nervous system, the effort required to read such works just isn't worth it. I can't enjoy a great work of literature that espouses those principles, anymore than I can stand to read the hatred spewed by the average MAGA follower. But that's me. In this particular time and place, trying to recover from a lifetime of trauma. Call me a snowflake. My nervous system sees an attack on anyone as an attack on all of us.

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I try to consider the work of art separate from the artist, and might or might not avoid something that is likely to have objectionable content depending on my mood at the time. It's trickier when the artist is still alive and I have to consider if I want to support them. As an example, I try to avoid doing anything that might in any way benefit JK Rowling.

I was heartbroken when I heard the allegations about Neil Gaiman since I've loved so many of his books, followed his blog for years, and met him in person a couple times (he seemed very nice). To my knowledge, he hasn't been convicted of any crimes, and in fact, I've read that no criminal charges have been filed (which doesn't mean he hasn't engaged in terrible behavior). I don't want to disbelieve his accusers, but I also believe people should be considered innocent until proven guilty beyond reasonable doubt. It would be different if I had any personal experience of him being inappropriate, but I don't, so I don't know what to believe. It's an incredibly frustrating situation, because I'm really not sure of the right thing to do.

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